by Marvin Schuldiner | May 14, 2025 | Conflict Quote
Before you speak, let your words pass through three gates At the first gate, ask yourself, “Is it true?” At the second gate ask, “Is it necessary?” At the third gate ask, “Is it kind?” ~ Rumi
by Marvin Schuldiner | Feb 22, 2019 | Conflict Quote
“Each of us is so much alike, & yet at the same time we are so different, & I have a feeling that if you encountered difficulty, and I with my age encountered the same difficulty, I would respond one way, & you would respond another. Neither would be right...
by Marvin Schuldiner | Jan 15, 2018 | Conflict Quote
“In any continuing relationship, any persistent feeling had better be expressed.” — Carl Rogers, American Psychologist (1902 – 1987)
by Marvin Schuldiner | Jul 10, 2017 | Conflict Quote
“Wisdom consists of the anticipation of consequences.” — Norman Cousins (1915 – 1990), American political journalist, author, professor, and world peace advocate. One of the goals of mediation is to anticipate consequences of the decisions the...
by Marvin Schuldiner | Jul 3, 2017 | Conflict Quote
Whenever anything negative happens to you, there is a deep lesson within it, although you may not see it at the time. — Eckhart Tolle (b. 1948), German author and spiritualist
by Marvin Schuldiner | Jun 19, 2017 | Conflict Quote
“It isn’t where you came from, it’s where you’re going that counts.” — Ella Fitzgerald (1917 – 1996), American Jazz Singer Mediation is a forward-looking process — we worry less about what happened and more about how to...